Look in the mirror for someone to blame for the things that are wrong in your life. When you realize it is the person staring back at you and that it is because of all the bad choices that person staring at you made, then you are ready to change your life. When you blame others and circumstances for your problems then you are also making it the responsibility of others and things outside of your control to make things better. If you are waiting on others and outside circumstances you will be waiting a long long time stuck in the rut of your broken life. Once you take full responsibility for the choices you have made then and only then can you own it and start making better choices and when you make better choices your life will change. I am an expert on this subject because I blamed others and everything else under the sun for all my problems and unhappiness and as long as I did this I stayed stuck in that way of life stuck in defeat. Once I looked in the mirror and accepted that I had been a fool and made foolish choices and that I am where I am because I put myself there, that is when everything changed!
AT EVERY ROCK BOTTOM THERE IS A MIRROR WAITING!